Money & finances

How About…Selling Things on Craigslist?

Ah, Craigslist!

That circus of humanity where you can buy haunted dolls for $1 or a $1.3M Bugatti Veyron.

While there is certainly a myriad of items for sell on Craigslist, have you ever thought of using it to downsize and even make some cold, hard cash?

Full disclosure: I have never sold anything off Craigslist myself. I am much more of an eBay seller. I guess the introvert in me likes the nameless, faceless interaction eBay offers. But I have friends who have made a surprising mint on this site.

Here are some ground rules that you, as a single lady, should keep in mind as you ponder what to sell on that crazy Craigslist (tips are courtesy of my BFF Angie, a Craigslist maven):

  • Only accept cash payments. Checks can bounce, and why bother getting a Square account for plastic?
  • Don’t hold anything for someone who will “pay later.” You want the item? You pay now! Why would you hold an item for someone who may or may not pay you? If you have a good item for sale, first come, first served.
  • If at all possible, meet in a public place. In broad daylight. With lots of people around. Coffees hops, fast food restaurants, and parking lots of big box stores are all good ideas.
  • If they are coming to your house, have backup. Angie has her dad over. Get your sweetie to hang around. Or a couple friends. There is safety in numbers!

Now that we got those deets out of the way, here are some ways my friends and family have profited from Craigslist triumphs:

Kellsey from NE: I bought a total lemon car…a 2000 Dodge Intrepid. We test-drove it, my stepdad said it looked OK, and we talked them down to $1,200 from the $1,700 asking price. I found a bunch of change left in the center console, and they told me to keep it! Plus I got to flirt with the handsome son of the owner ;).” (You can actually find money in your purchases!)

Ashley from TN: “My husband told me I could fill our home with knickknacks off any money I could make selling our old appliances and such when we rehabbed our home. I went Craigslist crazy and made $842 selling our ‘trash.’ It was a bit more than he expected!”

Dad from NE: “I had a 1984 Toyota Corolla. It was 24 years old, barely worked, and I thought I would be lucky to get $50 for scrap metal. I listed it for $250 on Craigslist one Tuesday morning, and had a woman test-driving it and paying cash for it within an hour. A barely usable car that was a curse for my family turned out to be a blessing for hers!”

BFF Angie from NE: “Do you want to hear about the $500 coffee table I got for $50? That was a magnificent bargain. Or once when I was moving I had a freezer I had to get rid of. It worked fine, but there was a funky odor coming from inside. So I offered anyone $50 to take it off my hands. Six people replied in less than 90 minutes.” (Moral of her stories: You can flip extraordinary bargains if you have the time, you can declutter your house with a few clicks of your mouse, and you can even find random gigs on Craigslist that actually pay!)

So whether you are looking to unload stuff for extra cash or looking for side gigs to earn some money, give Craigslist a thought. Give your unwanted items a new lease on life and give them to a good home!

Except the devil dolls. You can keep those.

What is the best thing you’ve ever found on Craigslist? Comment below!

The Value of In-Kind Donations

Want to make a difference in the world?

Yeah, Annie, I would love to. But I don’t have time. And right now, I am so broke that I can’t afford to pay attention!

Trust me, I get it. Money isn’t always an option to give, especially since us single girls only have our income. Have you ever thought about in-kind (non-monetary) donations?

I want to give you some tips for giving in-kind donations to make your donation go further and get yourself a tax write-off.

In-kind donations can take lots of different forms such as:

  • A silent auction item for a nonprofit
  • A bridesmaids dress for lower-income girls to have as prom dresses
  • Housewares for domestic violence survivors to set up their own apartment
  • Furniture for nonprofits that provide housing for refugees
  • Business clothes for women to wear on interviews
  • Gently used clothing for thrift shops who reinvest their earnings into community programs

Not only are these donations fantastic gifts for the nonprofits and those they serve, but it saves items from being thrown away. Clothes get a second life, and old appliances or furniture help set up new households.

There are tax benefits to in-kind donations. According to, here is what you need to do:

  • Make sure your donation is to a fully qualified 501(c)3. You cannot claim deductions to your church’s thrift store if it doesn’t have its own nonprofit tax ID number.
  • Make absolutely sure you have the proper documentation from the nonprofit about your donation. Any donation above $250 must have the charity’s name, the date, and the description and value of the donation. It’s a good idea to do this for any in-kind gift. Any 501(c)3 worth its salt will happily provide this paperwork upon request.
  • You cannot take a deduction for clothing unless it is in good used condition or better.
  • If you donate more than $500 worth of goods, you need to attach IRS form 8283, Section B to your income tax return.
  • Certain items are subject to professional appraisals to determine value. Click the link above for more information.
  • Always ask your tax professional any specific items. I am not a tax professional, and I gave up doing my own taxes a long time ago!

Note: While volunteer time and donated services (teaching a class, helping people prepare tax forms) are exceedingly generous, they are not tax-deductible. The IRS states that only tangible goods can be deducted from taxable income.

Now, to be honest, I don’t get documentation for every donation I make. I ruthlessly purged my closet about three years ago and had three trash bags full of clothes to give to a women’s shelter in my hometown. I didn’t have the time or the interest to categorize every item, let alone bother the shelter for a donation letter. But it was hundreds of dollars worth of clothing I could have written off.

I advocate giving because you really want to—not because you want a tax write-off. Don’t feel like you have to do all the paperwork if you just want to give items away. Do what works best for you. If you don’t have the time or energy to gather receipts or donation acknowledgments, there’s nothing wrong with that. The fact you are giving trumps everything else!

Whether you are helping a women just out of prison furnish her first apartment or adopting a family for Christmas, giving in-kind donations can have a powerful impact that lasts long after you’ve paid the bill. With a little creativity, you can give your unwanted possessions a second life. With a little extra paperwork, you can benefit from the tax deductions in the IRS code.

What do you have in your home that you would love most to give as an in-kind donation? Comment below!

The Single Girl’s Guide to Renter’s Insurance

About ten years ago, I was living at home when my parents got a late-night phone call.

My sister’s apartment building had burned down.

A guest visiting a resident carelessly discarded a cigarette into a trash can. It happened to be right next to the apartment building, and it caught fire in no time.

Thankfully my sister wasn’t hurt, and her cats suffered some smoke inhalation, but they were fine. Her betta fish somehow even made it out unscathed.

The rest of her possessions were shot. Except for a few objects, everything was waterlogged or sustained smoke damage. She had to trash about 95% of what she owned.

She also was the only building resident who had insurance. Her company cut her a check for her insured amount, and she was able to refurnish her apartment after it was rebuilt. The rest of the tenants were not as lucky.

Be a savvy single woman. You only have your income and yourself to rely on to get insurance. My sister’s lesson was a powerful reminder for me to always have renter’s insurance, and I have never been without. It is one of the cheapest insurances to get—most policies run $10-$25 a month, and the following tips will help you decide what renter’s insurance is best for you, and how to find it.

How much insurance do I need?

This depends on how much you own. The average renter has $20,000 – $30,000 in possessions.

  • Make an inventory of everything you own.
  • Figure out how much you paid for it, and what it is worth now.
  • If you have an emergency fund (and you should really have at least $1,000 on hand), you can have a higher deductible.

How do I shop for insurance?

  • Call around to get price quotes. I like to do this every couple years to make sure I am getting the best possible deal.
  • Get quotes online. With the exception of (which is worthless because there are a lot of zip codes they don’t even offer quotes for, and I mean A LOT, you have to go from site to site for quotes. It’s a hassle, and to be perfectly honest, I got cheaper rates when I made a few calls and talked to actual human beings.
  • Bundle it any existing car/life/etc. insurance. This doesn’t work in my specific case, but it does for a lot of people.
  • Hire an insurance broker. If you don’t have the time or energy to do your own comparison-shopping, you can always have a broker do it for you. While I have never done this myself, there are definitely some benefits, the most important being you have a honest-to-God person in your corner.

Are there any things in my policy I need to be aware of?

  • Some policies don’t cover earthquakes or floods. You may need to purchase separate policies. Consult your insurance company.
  • Know the difference between Actual Cash Value and Replacement Value. Actual Cash Value takes into account wear and tear, and is the actual value of the item. This is cheaper insurance. Replacement Value would be what it actually costs to replace your item with something similar.
  • Know if you policy has a cap on certain items. If you have a $20,000 policy but only has a $2,000 cap on jewelry, you may need to get a rider or extra insurance for heirloom jewelry. 

I sincerely hope nothing ever happens that you would need to cash in your renters insurance. But having it gives you that extra peace of mind you deserve. Don’t be like the other tenants in my sister’s building. Be savvy and protect your possessions!

When was the last time you compared renters or homeowners insurance policies? Comment below and tell us your story!

How Much Car Can You Afford?

Think back to your first car.

What was it? A family car passed from one sibling to the next? An old car from a relative? Something cheap you found in the paper (or online, for you millennials)?

Mine was a 1987 Toyota minivan. Coming from a family of five kids, of course my parents used minivans to haul us around. By the time I reached driving age in the early/mid 1990s, the car was almost 10 years old, which was just as well. I put a lot of battle scars on it.

While many of us have fond memories of the cars we inherited or bought ourselves, owning an automobile is one headache of adulting because they are so bloody expensive.

So because we are one-income households, and many of us don’t live in places with excellent public transportation, cars are a necessary expense.

So just how much car can you afford?

With the average new car clocking in at about $31,000, cars are usually the second most expensive thing you will buy after a house. Except cars lose 60% of their value after five years. At least houses (usually) increase in value!

My car is a perfect example. I have a 2010 Toyota Yaris (her name is Katya, but my coworkers lovingly refer to her as my “meep-meep car” since it’s a subcompact). I bought it new in 2010, and now Kelley Blue Book ( estimates its value—in good condition—is exactly half what I paid for it.

I follow Dave Ramsey’s principle that the value of my car is 50% or less of my total income. So if you earn $40,000 a year, your car should be worth no more than $20,000.

There are also other factors to consider when trying to determine how much car you can afford:

  • Gas – As of this writing (August 2017), AAA reports that gas averages $2.28 a gallon nationwide. I’m assuming most of you are not in the Hummer demographic, but buying a car that gets more MPG will save you in the long run. Average out how many times you fill up in a month when you do your budget to keep aware of the costs.
  • Routine maintenance – Oil changes, tire rotation, windshield wiper blades…the list goes on. And the repairs will increase as your car ages. I set aside a certain amount every month in my savings account earmarked for repairs. I fully intend to drive my car until at least 2027, if not 2030. Toyotas last forever, and mine only has 45,000 miles!
  • Taxes – This is harder to determine, but 17 states (mine included) have tax estimators online. You can also call your DMV to see if they can give you a ballpark figure for your budget. Or, worse case scenario, assume what you paid last year will be the same.
  • Insurance – I have already written about how to shop for car insurance. You owe it to yourself to see if you qualify for certain discounts and to carefully research how to get the best deal while maintaining good coverage.
  • Auto club service – I used to have AAA when I drove a very unreliable Subaru. Since I’ve had my Yaris, I haven’t felt the need to have it. But now that she’s 7, that $100 may be a wise investment. As a single woman, this is a great investment, especially if you do a lot if interstate and/or night driving.

Between car payments, gas, etc., your car should represent about 10-15% of your budget. If it gets up toward 20%, you may want to rethink if you have too much car for your personal situation.

Cars offer the freedom to take you wherever you want to go, but they do require expense and planning. Budgeting for you car will make emergency trips to the garage less stressful and empower you to control your finances

What kind of car are you currently driving? Is it draining your budget, or is it manageable? Comment below!

The Power of One: My Experience with Kiva.Org

When you think of volunteering, the expression, “Think global, act local” may come to mind, right?

Volunteer at a soup kitchen. Walk animals for the Humane Society. Become a Big Sister. Work with Habitat for Humanity.

There are countless ways to get involved in your local community, but what if I told you there was a way to get involved, make a global impact, and you could do it at home in your jammies?

I first heard about when I was teaching high school Spanish. My colleague who organized the Spanish club asked the students what they’d like to spend some of their funds on. Instead of a Cinco de Mayo party or a video and pizza after school, one of the kids suggesting donating funds via to an entrepreneur in Latin America.

After that, I became hooked.

Who: Kiva gives funds to entrepreneurs all over the world, and more than 80% of them are women. Kiva likes to focus its efforts on women because they are more likely to suffer poverty in developing countries. With Kiva’s microloans, they are able to educate their children, renovate their homes, and have a greater impact on other local businesses.

There are currently almost 2,700 loans posted on Kiva, ranging from $1,000 to $30,000. The minimum crowdfunding commitment is $25.


  1. Entrepreneurs apply for field loans from Kiva’s field partners (partnering non-profits who work directly with the loan applicants in the country).
  2. The field partner underwrites and approves the loan.
  3. The loan is put out for crowdfunding on Kiva.
  4. Once the loan has been funded, the borrower repays the loan to the field partner, who repays Kiva in turn.
  5. Kiva returns the money to the crowdfunders, who can either withdraw the funds or use them for another loan.

When: Founded in 2005, Kiva has helped more than 1.6 million entrepreneurs and raised nearly $1 billion.

Where: Kiva is currently distributing funds in 82 countries, from the United States to Zimbabwe to the Solomon Islands.

Why: This was a no-brainer for me. As an entrepreneur, I like to see others succeed in creating and sustaining small businesses. My very first Kiva loan was to a Haitian woman named Marie-Josiane who needed $1,850 to buy a supply of beans, rice, flour, and other staples for her market stand. The photo showed her looking extremely proud of her inventory, like she had control of her destiny thanks to the power of microfinancing.

The $25 I donated was repaid in $4.16 installments over 6 months. After which, I was free to do on and re-invest in another female entrepreneur in Africa.

Is perfect? No, it isn’t. While 97.1% of their loans are successfully repaid, almost 3% of the loans do not get paid. So there is a risk when you lend.

Some of the loan interest rates are pretty shocking. Field partners can charge over a 15% interest rate for repayments, which is I think is almost predatory. While Kiva’s investors don’t feel the difference, that definitely makes a difference to the entrepreneurs’ bottom line.

While it is a case of “buyer beware” with a small percentage of loans, I love and what it does to sustain local economies both here in the States and overseas. I love the idea of empowering women to take charge of their own affairs and lead their families to a place of economic environment.

Do you have $25? What are you waiting for? Hop on and make a difference today!

Have you ever helped out with an overseas charitable organization? What was your experience? Comment below!

You Should…Sell Your Stuff on eBay

How is a girl supposed to make extra cash?

It’s hard to get ahead when bills pile up and you work 40 (or more) hours a week and you still need some extra money. What can you do that’s easy and won’t take a ton of time?

Have you ever considered selling stuff on eBay? Founded in 1995, Pierre Omidyar sold a broken laser pointer for $14.83. What began as an experiment in his living room turned into a business that leveled the playing field for selling your old stuff. No longer do you have to take out ads in the paper or post flyers around the neighborhood. You can sell clothing, jewelry, handbags, and anything else you want to get rid of on eBay, ThredUp, or any number of similar sites. You can do it from home in your jammies, and here are some reasons you should consider selling your stuff:

  1. Clean out your closet. I bet there is half a closet full of things you never wear anymore. What easier way to simplify your life, create more room in your closet, and live clutter-free than by selling some of your unused stuff?
  2. It’s easier than consignment. There are lots of places to sell clothes, jewelry, furniture, etc. on consignment. But you get a smaller slice of the pie than by selling on eBay. By cutting out the middle woman (or man), your profits can grow exponentially.
  3. You can do it in your spare time. Got 20 free minutes? Put a shirt on a hanger, take a couple photos, write up a paragraph about it, and post it on the eBay app. You may have just made $30 in those 20 minutes!
  4. Listing couldn’t be any easier. Once you have a template listing, you can have things listed on the app in as little as five minutes.
  5. Give your items good homes. Have you ever taken a bag of clothes to the Salvation Army or Goodwill and felt more than a twinge of guilt? Those are good organizations, but let’s face it…sometimes we get attached to stuff. That book you got as a present you’ll never read. That dress you wore to your best friend’s wedding. If there’s emotion attached to these items, is it easy to part with them? Maybe not. But selling them on eBay gives them a second life, and they are going to people who really want and will appreciate it.
  6. Eliminate the creepers on sites such as Craigslist. I’m not a huge fan of Craigslist, though I know lots of people are. Personally, I like being able to sell items to people who I don’t have to meet in a Wal-Mart parking lot. I just slap the item in an envelope to a winning bidder and post it. No fuss, no muss.
  7. You can create an entire side business around selling. If you get really good at selling a particular item, you can have a whole second income from selling items on eBay. My sister’s good friend sells ugly Christmas sweaters and gently used baby clothes she finds at garage sales and makes hundreds of dollars to supplement her family’s income. A friend of my brother’s has a fulltime business selling Pyrex cookware and Fiesta dinnerware to hipsters, and he makes a good living at it.

Hopefully this has given you some ideas about why selling on eBay is such a great idea. Take one item and try to sell it on there – you may just discover a new way to generate income.

Have you ever used eBay? What was the best thing you ever bought? Comment below!

How to Check Out a Non-Profit Before You Donate


I bet you can think of a hundred different ways to spend the automatic deposit or check that you’re getting from Uncle Sam, right? Are you saving it? Paying off some debt? Going on vacay?

Allow me to put a bug in your ear…Have you ever thought of giving some of it to a charitable organization?

I think a lot of us love the idea of giving back to a non-profit with either our time or our talent, but unfortunately the non-profit world is like the business world – you have to do your due diligence to make sure you are getting the most bang for your buck. Here are some simple tips to ensure your donation is going to a reputable organization, and that it’s not being wasted:

  1. Is the charity a 501(c)3? In order for your donation to be tax-deductible, it has to be registered as a 501(c)3, which is the IRS’ non-profit code. Go to to determine if the charity you want to donate to has this tax-exempt status.
  1. Examine the charity’s annual report. If the non-profit is truly transparent, they will have their annual report either on their website or will readily send it to you. If they have pie charts or bar graphs, you can literally see where the cash is going. If they are hemorrhaging money, that’s a bad sign. If they rely too heavily on volatile grants, that can be another red flag.
  1. Read the organization’s 990. The 990 is the non-profit equivalent of a 1040 that they file every year. This is where you find the real dirt. is hands down the best place on the Internet to find out where the non-profit *really* spends their money. For example, the Los Angeles Opera Company spent $35 million in its 2014 filing. The famous opera tenor Placido Domingo made over $900,000 for being their general director, and the form even indicated he sometimes used first-class travel for “business purposes.”

The famous opera tenor Placido Domingo made over $900,000 for being their general director, and the form even indicated he sometimes used first-class travel for “business purposes.”

Wait, what?!

  1. Determine what percentage of their budget directly impacts programs. Continuing with the example of the LA Opera company, their 990 shows that $3.5 million went to the top eleven salaries. That’s equivalent to 10% of their operating budget. That’s a big percentage for such a small portion of their staff. I wonder what they pay their musicians…?

This isn’t an exact science, because of course non-profits’ biggest expenses are salaries. And people who work there deserve to make a living they are often hardworking and very underpaid.

But is an appropriate amount going to programs in the community? Are they making an impact among people you know or have heard about? Can the non-profit give you evidence of its footprint with statistics and press packets? Because if they can’t, something is probably fishy.

  1. Consider an in-kind donation. Give an old bridesmaids dress to a charity that provides prom dresses to those who can’t afford it. Donate books to a literacy center, or gently used toys to a shelter that takes in families. Or offer a donation to a silent auction fundraiser. That way you know your items go directly to support the organization’s mission, and receive a donation form come tax season.
  1. Or, better yet, give your time. Money is great, but time is even better. Play with shelter kitties. Cook a meal for soup kitchen. Pick up trash along a bike path. Do Meals on Wheels. There are hundreds of ways to donate your time and get some real skin in the game. Nothing will show your passion for an organization like the time you spend there. 

What non-profit is nearest and dearest to your heart? Comment below!

Why You Need a Will (and How to Get One!)

“I’m 35, single, and in good health. I don’t need a will!”

Yes, you do.

I’m going to talk about estate planning today, which isn’t exciting or glamorous, but it is definitely an uncomfortable subject. Here are some compelling reasons why you should consider getting a will, and how you can do it without too much hassle.

  1. Protect your assets. I rent, so on paper, it may look like I don’t own much. But if you add in my car, retirement accounts, my business, and my other assets, it all adds up. Having a will means I know what I am worth, and I know my interests are protected.
  1. Have your wishes fulfilled. My will includes instructions to be cremated and having my ashes scattered. I know from conversations with my parents they would prefer to bury me. But my will trumps their wishes and I don’t leave my final wishes to chance. It’s spelled out in black and white.
  1. Spare your loved ones. Many of us know people who pass away without wills and relatives and friends come out of the woodwork, all wanting valuables or a piece of the deceased’s estate. This can cause heartache and ruptures in the family as it drags out in the courts. Do you want to subject your family to that kind of grief? Having a will guarantees squabbles won’t arise after your death, and preserves the peace.
  1. You really never know. I am young and healthy, but sadly none of us know what the future holds. A very dear friend of mine died at 33 years old. She had no will, and her heart-broken parents had to go through her estate and determine what she owed. It was so difficult for them to take care of all her paperwork. I don’t want my parents to have to go through that, so my will has specific instructions, and my sister is my executor.

I gave my parents power of attorney over me before I moved to France for a year. They were baffled why I would do such a thing, saying nothing bad would happen to me. Well, at the end of my trip, my appendix ruptured and I got a blood infection. I very nearly didn’t make it home. But because they had power of attorney over me, I made it legally easier for them to bring me home to the States in case I did die. I was only 23.                                                                                                                    

As a Dave Ramsey fan, I followed his advice and got my will drawn up at USLegalForms.Com. They offer state-specific wills you can fill out online and are valid legal documents. At $49.95 for a PDF or $59.95 for a paper form, it certainly is a budget-friendly way to draw up a will. Rates may vary depending on your state, but it is certainly worth investigating. There are other websites like which offer wills created online for a reasonable cost. It pays to do your research!

Of course you can meet with a lawyer and draw up a will. That is advantageous because you are dealing with real people who know you and can amend the will whenever you need it. Be prepared to spend $300-$1,000, but that is money well spent!

Hopefully this blog post has given you some food for thought and will have you consider creating a will. Think about your loved ones. Do you want to put them through anxiety and additional grief of taking care of your estate with no written directives?

Of course not. So look into getting a will started. Now.

Do you have a will? Why or why not? Comment below!

When to Save and When to Splurge on Clothing

To spend or not to spend…that is the question.

There are a lot of budget fashionistas out there who will spend a little money on ready-to-wear items every season. But Plus One Women are a little more discerning. We would prefer to have nicer things if we know they will last.

This week, I’m taking a look at various items of clothing to determine which ones I recommend saving on, and which ones to splurge on. I don’t cover workout clothes, loungewear, undies, or jammies. Instead, I focus on wardrobe staples you will wear either to work or out and about.


  • Sweaters – I don’t skimp on sweaters. Because they are the bulk of my winter wardrobe and I prefer cashmere, I go for quality over quantity. The only exception is black cardigans – I love them but wear them so hard, they rarely last year to year.
  • Coats – Midwest winters are brutal. So why would you skimp on a poor quality coat? I had to invest in a new one this year, only because I had gained so much weight that my coat of three winters no longer fit. I got a stylish wool coat that will last me for several years. It wasn’t cheap, but I know I will get my money’s worth out of it.
  • Shoes – This is the item I am least likely to save on. I have awful feet – bunions, pronation, and all. So why would I spend $25 on a crummy pair of shoes that falls apart in a few weeks? My shoes may not be cheap or sexy, but they are comfortable and last me for years.
  • Dresses – Since I only wear two dresses a season, I am meticulous about how they fit, and this is one where you get what you pay for. When I try on cheaper dresses, I am almost always disappointed how they fit. But a good quality dress will fit you like a glove and wear well through many washings.
  • Jeans – I only own one pair of jeans. You heard me right. After searching high and low, I found a pair that covers my stomach, makes my butt look good, and emphasizes my long legs. Yeah, they cost $100, but they’ve lasted almost three years. Can you say the same about a $40 pair?


  • Scarves – These colorful nomads of your wardrobe don’t have to cost a lot. You can find them at discount stores in all sorts of gorgeous patterns that won’t break the bank. Have fun with them!
  • T-shirts and camis – Because they usually don’t tend to last long, there’s no sense in spending big bucks on them. Unless you find a style that really flatters you and you buy all the colors, tees and camis aren’t investment pieces.
  • Trousers – Because I know what Lane Bryant size I am, as soon as I wear out a pair of trousers, I have no problem buying another pair. I put pants through a lot: weight fluctuation, chub rub, contorting in different positions at work or even relaxing on the couch. My experience is expensive trousers don’t hold up any better.
  • Skirts – Because hemlines and silhouettes change, go ahead and have fun with skirts. They’re an easy item to wear and care for. I will spend money on a quality wool pencil skirt, but that’s it.

Save or Splurge

  • Purses – It’s your call. Personally I prefer to pay a little more for one quality black purse. But if you like different colors for the seasons, buying inexpensive purses adds a great pop of color!
  • Tops – For me, it just depends. I have shirts from Target and shirts I paid nearly $100 for. I would prefer to spend a little more to wear a shirt that fits really well than $30 for something that looks like a box on me. Again, I care about fit and quality, not price.

I hope that gives you some idea of how I price out my clothing. I’m not a snob for preferring quality clothes – they are investment pieces in my capsule wardrobe and I save money in the long run by shopping less because I buy clothing that holds up for years instead of months.

What is the one fashion item you always splurge on? Comment below!

Why You Should ‘Sleep On’ Some Purchases

elevateIs spending $100 a lot to you? Does the thought of paying $100 for a pair of shoes, a purse, or a piece of jewelry make you break out in hives? Or do you channel your inner Tom and Donna and treat yo’self?

Personally, I lean more towards Tom and Donna.

While it is important to save money, you do deserve a treat every now and again. And I believe you get when you pay for, especially when it comes to things like shoes and winter coats, you can’t go completely nuts.

Today I’m going to talk about the importance of waiting a day before buying something, guidelines to help you make wise purchasing decisions, and why you should sometimes splurge.

The $100 rule was an idea I first had when I took Dave Ramsey’s Financial Peace University. In it, he champions “sleeping on” any purchase of over $300 and talking it over with your spouse before you buy. Obviously I don’t have a spouse to talk things over with, so I modified it to fit my life. If I am going to spend $100 on a non-essential item, I think it over for 24 hours.

Simple as that.

Here are my rules for if I want to spend $100:

  1. Groceries, utilities, and other bills do not count. Of course I have to eat and pay the bills. But if I want a new pair of glasses, I have to check the finances to make sure it is in the budget.
  1. Determine if it is a need or a want. Eventually I need a new pair of glasses, coat, or pair of shoes. But I only want jewelry, extra shirts, spa treatments, etc.
  1. If it is a need, I do my research. If it is a want, I definitely sleep on it. I have no problem forking over $100 for a “need” item if it will last me a really long time. But I have to do my due diligence. I scour the web to see where I can score the best deal and go from there. If it is a luxury like jewelry or a dress I want, half the time I find I didn’t really want it after thinking about it.
  1. I am not afraid to spend money on classic, quality items. My current purse, only pair of jeans, and my two favorite pairs of shoes cost over $100, but they have lasted my for years. Here are some questions I ask myself to determine if it is worth the splurge:
  • Will the item last a long time? Is it made well?
  • Does it go with everything you own?
  • Will this be your only winter coat/pair of jeans/purse?
  • Will you enjoy and use it for more than a year?
  1. If I experience even the slightest buyer’s remorse, I return the item. It is important to treat yourself, but if you are not completely delighted with what you bought, why would you keep it?

If you follow these rules and ask yourself these questions, they will hopefully clarify what you need to buy and what you should think about. I am not opposed to spending money, but I want to make sure I am spending it wisely and on quality pieces.

Have you ever “slept on” a purchase before buying? Comment below!

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