An Interview with Canadian Blogger Ena Dumais

Plus One Woman is going north of the border this week to interview Ontario-based fashion and body positivity blogger, activist, and speaker Ena Dumais.

Ena is the creative for behind Pretty, Plus, and Proud, where she chronicles her journey to self-love and –acceptance, provides makeup tips, stresses the importance of loving yourself, teaches how to cultivate a positive mindset, and shares her shopping scores (frequently at Torrid).

She is also honest about her daily life, her family, and living with MS. I just love her blog because it radiates positivity, strength, and finding joy in your everyday life.

Please enjoy the following interview and make sure to check Ena out on social media at the links below—she is especially active on her YouTube channel. Her videos are a blast to watch—especially her shopping hauls and her body positive talks. Be sure you subscribe so you can snag her giveaways!

  1. One of the strongest messages on your blog that resonates with me is learning to love who you are, where you are right now. How did you learn that yourself, and what do you say to the woman who really struggles with accepting herself as she is?

 I guess for me, wisdom came with age. I turned 50 and was tired of fighting with my body. I thought to myself I don’t want to waste any more time trying to be something I’m not. I didn’t want to spend any more time counting calories, weighing food, and hiding in clothes too big for me. For women still struggling, I would say that life is short and spending it hating yourself is a battle that there is no winner. You don’t want to miss any more special moments with loved ones that you can’t get back.

  1. I really loved your “Inspiring Women” series you did earlier this year. You highlighted some of your heroes from social media, and how they are beautiful inside and out. What inspires you as a woman?

Women who have fought the battle with themselves and have come out loving their curves. Women who see their lumps, bumps, scars, and stretch marks as signs of a life well lived are my heroes. They are the women little girls should be admiring—not what they typically see in social media, TV, movies, or print media.

  1. What are some of your favorite fashion and/or makeup combinations you have worn lately?

Recently I stepped out of my comfort zone and tried on a skirt/t-shirt combination that I didn’t think I’d like, but I loved it and I bought it. I plan to rock it at a Body Positive event I’m attending Thanksgiving weekend!


How to follow Ena:

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An Interview with the Curvy Fashionista, Marie Denee

I cannot even begin to tell you how excited I am to bring you this interview from Marie Denee, aka the Curvy Fashionista. With over 550,000 Facebook  and 64,000 Instagram followers, there is absolutely no doubt that she is the biggest plus-size fashion blogger in the United States.

Since she launched her blog in December 2008, Marie has been at the forefront of all trends curvy and fashionable. Her blog and vlog serve up fresh helpings of the newest and greatest in plus-sized fashion, and the Plus One Woman sat down with the Atlanta-based blogger to get her insights on classy and trendy pieces. Enjoy!

  1. Not counting nightwear/underwear/loungewear or accessories, what are three things every woman should have in her closet or her dresser drawer?

Ohhh this is fun! I think that she should have an amazing Little Black Dress that she can dress up or down, that allows her confidence to beam through! A kickass pair of jeans. Ones that make you booty feel and look amazing, that do not cut off circulation, and that can be worn in more than a few ways… versatility is key here. The last? A go to wow or hero piece. This can be an amazing blazer, unique blouse, or sexy skirt. Basically, something other than the staples that immediately brings life to an outfit, gives you that extra boost of confidence and attitude!

  1. If a woman usually sticks to the classics, how would you advise her to add some trendy items into her rotation?

Play with accessories! Bring color into your handbags, get a little daring with your shoes, layer on the bangles! Basically, it is all about accessorize to maximize! To take it up a notch, try a different or new blouse print or silhouette with your trusty skirt or slacks. Pair your favorite blazer with a bold printed or full skirt. Here, it is all about i moderation, and when you step out of your box, it is best to do so in baby steps or with items that still make you feel amazing!

  1. What are two pieces you believe in paying a little more for, and why? (For example, I will happily pay more than $100 for shoes because my feet are awful, and I usually buy expensive jeans because my Silvers last for YEARS!).

Ohhh I do love my Silver jeans and do agree on the quality and how long they last! For me, I would say a blazer and slacks. If these two items serve as a foundation for your wardrobe, you will wear them a bit more frequently than others. It is important that the integrity of the garment will hold up to your daily wear- armholes, buttons, thigh friction… you know what I mean! I have found if I spend a little more on these staples, they give my wardrobe a longer shelf life!

To find out more about the Curvy Fashionista, click here!

Photo credit: http://thecurvyfashionista.com/2016/11/christian-omeshun-holiday-collection/

Why Mae West Was a Trailblazer and a Badass

Many people have heard the name Mae West, but very few people know much about her outside of her blonde bombshell image and her classic one-liners like, “Come up and see me sometime.”

Beneath the platinum blonde hair and super-tweezed eyebrows, did you have any idea that Mae was a Hollywood pioneer, one of the first unconventional sex symbols, a shrewd businesswoman, an ex-con, and made movies clear up to the age of 85?

She was, and this week’s blog is dedicated to a strong, single, curvy Mae West, who was the highest-paid woman in the world and led a life few know about.

Not deemed a “classic beauty,” she knew how to work it. Only 5’0”, Mae wore six-to-nine-inch heels (depending on the source). That gave her her signature hip “wiggle.” While women like Claudette Colbert, Joan Crawford, and Greta Garbo had willowy figures and smoldering gazes, Mae West was curvy and brash. She sang, she danced, and her one-line zingers were full of double entendres that she used from her old vaudeville days. She knew what looked good on her, and she never complained when she was literally sewn into every costume she wore.

She was a convicted felon, and she used that to her advantage. In 1926, Mae was arrested for writing, producing, and starring in a play in New York simply called Sex. Censors called on her to stop. She refused and was convicted of producing an immoral theatrical performance. She was given the choice of a $500 fine (about $6,800 today) or 10 days in jail. Shocking her family and fans, she chose jail time. She wanted the publicity and she was genuinely curious about prison life.

She had an atypical experience – she insisted on wearing her own silk undergarments, claiming she was allergic to the prison-issued undies. She also dined with the warden every night and was given VIP treatment by her fellow inmates. She recounted the her jail time with fondness in later interviews, and despite being a felon, she left jail more popular than ever, and people lined up around the block to see the latest plays she wrote and produced.

She played the Hollywood game – a man’s world – on her terms. And won. Mae starred in her first movie at the relatively late age of 39. She negotiated her own contracts and had a lot of leverage in rewriting the scripts she was sent.

She didn’t flinch even when confronted with a scandal – her husband (who she married at age 18 and while they never lived together, they never divorced) tried to extort her for thousands of dollars. This was at the height of her career in 1937. Mae refused to give into his blackmail, since her husband had remarried, making him a bigamist. She finally divorced him in 1943.

Mae was sexually liberated at a time women were supposed to conform. Her easy, breezy sexiness was never crude, with no swearing, just lots of bawdy jokes to keep audiences wanting more and declaring sexual liberation before that was even a thing.

Despite having only a third-grade education, she was smart and savvy. Mae wrote many of her own plays she performed in New York before she moved to L.A. in 1932. She drew on her experience from vaudeville and stock theater, and she knew how to write plays audiences loved. It wasn’t Shakespeare, but it was about sexually liberated women who fought for them men they loved, or they knew when to cut their losses and run.

She also wanted to learn everything she could about the business of filmmaking. Mae spent countless hours learning about lighting, camera angles, editing, and other aspects of film production at a time few women did.

Mae mostly retired from acting in the early 1940s, but her money wasn’t idle. She was a real estate investor, and she knew exactly where to buy land in the booming southern California real estate market, and that made her more money than she ever earned at the box office.

She took care of everyone she loved. Mae’s beloved mother died before her Hollywood career, but she brought her father, brother, and sister out to California with her. Her father had retired from being a private investigator, and Mae ensured he was financially independent, which was a rarity during the Great Depression. She got bit acting parts for her brother, Jack. When that didn’t pan out, she bought a ranch so he could train horses. Their sister lived there, too.

Though she never drove, she bought herself a new limo every year. She gave the old ones anonymously to local convents.

She also remembered her staff very generously in her will when she died in 1980 at the age of 87. She had a very small inner circle, but she loved her peeps and ensured they were cared for.

So many memorable quotes.

“Too much of a good thing can be wonderful.”

“To err is human, but it feels divine.”

“You only live once, but if you do it right, once is enough.”

“I’m no model lady. A model is just an imitation of the real thing.”

“Cultivate your curves – they may be dangerous, but they won’t be avoided.”

“I believe it is better to be looked over than it is to be overlooked.”

“I used to be Snow White, but I drifted.”

“I didn’t discover curves, I only uncovered them.”

“It’s not the men in my life that count, it’s the life in my men.”

“I’ve been things and seen places.”

I hope this short blog entry gives you an idea of what a badass Mae West was. She was so much more than diamonds and one-liners. She was a playwright, producer, unconventional sex symbol, screenwriter, and real estate investor. She shattered glass ceilings and her legacy is felt in Hollywood to this day.

Who is your favorite old-timey Hollywood actress, and why? Comment below!